
Celebrate differently
Rituals that reflect your actual values, not magazine templates.
Custom Wedding Ceremony Design
Marriage isn't just a celebration. It's stepping into a new life as you create forever together.
The question isn't "What kind of party do we want?" It's "How do we design an ceremony that creates lasting alignment around our partnership?"
A ceremony that reflects who you actually are, community alignment around your partnership, and strategic guidance through the engagement transition.
Create a cultural moment that helps everyone understand why you belong together.
Make the ceremony of your dreams
We map what matters to the two of you: your backgrounds, your story, your vision for partnership. Then we design ceremony experiences that feel authentically yours.
All the while, we’ll engage strategic guidance for navigating family traditions, creating new ones, and designing rituals that honor complexity while creating meaning for everyone present.
You will leave knowing why you signed up for this marriage, and have a day you’ll never forget.
Our Sessions
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Dig into who you are as individuals? What patterns from your backgrounds do you want to keep, transform, or release?
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Dig into what kind of partnership you want to build together. What values will guide how you navigate life together?
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Build ways to honor different backgrounds/traditions while creating something authentically yours
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Co-create the actual ritual: elements, flow, meaning-making moments that align with your values and vision.
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Build deeper into how we create the right conditions for everyone to be on the same team on the day
Have the kind of wedding day that makes you feel seen
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Strategic Guidance
Ongoing support through the engagement transition itself
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Custom Ceremony
One-of-one ceremony that reflects your values and partnership vision
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Ordained minister
Practiced, polished performer capable of making sure the day is executed well
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Meaningful moments
Ritual moments and vows that are structured, not just photo opportunities
Stephen, Founder
Lu helped me walk through the fog instead of trying to bulldoze past it. The combination of strategic thinking and emotional support was unlike anything I'd experienced.
Holly, Ad Exec
Lu finds the most relevant examples and expanders from completely unrelated categories. It challenged me to think bigger and braver about what was possible in my creative transition.
Why Lu?
Benefits of the Coaching Approach:
Maintains your agency. You're not a patient but hiring on a new member to your creative team
Integrates business and personal. Your next move isn't separate from your identity work, and objectively allows you to think holistically about it
Action-oriented. We build systems and frameworks you can use immediately
Strategic perspective. Productive, meaningful pattern recognition across the world around you, not just your internal patterns
Forward momentum. Less time processing what went wrong, more time building what's next
The coaching container creates space for transformation while honoring your capabilities as a strategic thinker. It is a distinct, but complementary relationship to a therapy routine.
Contact us
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